An Article About Love and Life
How many of us look at other people’s life and wonder how they are living such a Blessed happy life of love while we are sitting here rusting in a hell of pain, fear, and loneliness? Many of us are! It’s actually engraved in human nature to want what the other person has and it’s totally normal to feel that way. While constantly wondering, when will I find the love of my life? What is, however, not normal is allowing these thoughts to take control of our lives. What we must always, always, always ( I cannot emphasize more on the “always” ) remember is that every single person’s life is like a cotton ball with only the outer covering exposed to us. We can only see a part of that cotton ball (in this case the outer cover) and not really what lies deep within. Sometimes the displayed part is filled with happy times and sometimes it’s not. Regardless of what is on display, at the end of the day, it is still, just 10% of what is really happening in that person’s life.
When love is hard
We all have our own struggles, our own demons, our own fears and our own “happiness bubbles”. If you really want to live a life without being a slave of your own mind and a prisoner in your own body, then the first step is to stop comparing. Especially your relationships. You will never come across a single person in your entire lifetime whose story you are completely aware of. So, stop measuring your life to everyone else’s. We all are on our way to something and as each of us is walking down a different road wondering “when will I find the love of my life? We all have different hurdles whether they arise in the form of relationships, money, career, or something else.
Finding the love of my life
Rather than comparing, we should focus on what we have and try to build from there. What we must always remember is that if a problem arises, so does a solution. In the beginning it all seems hopeless and overwhelming but there is ALWAYS a way out, you just have to see it! There is absolutely no pain greater than the pain that a soul cannot bear and likewise, there is no situation worse than a situation that a person cannot change for the better. With enough determination and hope, you can without a speck of doubt, improve your situations regardless of how bad they seem because hope and faith when coupled with will and Devine Guidance, can surely move mountains.
Thoughts of love
The bottom line is: rather than feeling sorry for yourself, expend that energy into thinking of ways that you can make your life better. Use your already-present-assets because will, at the end of the day, create your own fate by your thoughts.