What Women Want
They say that women are complex. They are emotional and fickle-minded beings. But what do women really want? What makes them tick? Here are some of the things that every man should know in order to win a woman’s heart:
What women really want is love. More than the need to be understood, a woman needs to be loved. A woman needs genuine love especially from the opposite sex. Although love is communicated in a number of ways, a man’s word reflects the condition of his heart. What makes a man really attractive is what is inside of his heart.
I know that respect is not to be imposed but it is to be earned. However, in our society today most of the women get very little or worse, no respect from men. But if a man really wants to win the heart of a woman, he should start it by respecting her. If a man cannot respect a women then he cannot respect himself.
What women really want is definitely a good sense of humor. A man with good humor certainly has the edge. A woman is not only attracted to a guy who looks hot or handsome but she is all the more attracted to a guy who can make her laugh. As per Marilyn Monroe, “If you can make a woman laugh, you can make her do anything”. Go on and start practicing those pick-up lines or knock knock jokes. Make a woman laugh and you have her heart.
- Loyalty and Commitment.
“Unless commitment is made, there are only promises and hopes; but no plans.” – Peter Drucker
What women really want is commitment. When we talk about commitment, one would easily jump to marriage or commitment to a romantic relationship. But what I want to emphasize is that a woman wants a man who is not playing around on her. What women don’t want is a man who is so enamored with himself that he only wants temporary satisfaction and then dumps her if someone better comes along. Loyalty is never an option when it comes to relationships. It is always a must.
- Study her.
What women really want is a man who never stops learning. A man should study a woman. Learn what are her likes or dislikes, hobbies, interests, habits and when you know these things do not stop there. Investing your time, money, and energy on the woman you love is truly a great investment that will last a lifetime.
What women really want is communication. Communication is the lifeblood of any relationship. A relationship cannot survive without good communication. The very foundation of a solid relationship is good, open and honest communication. This is how both a man and woman can establish harmony in their relationship. Be slow to anger and abounding in love. Be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.
What women want is also security. This is not only limited to financial security but also to the need for physical and emotional security. One of the best relationships is for a woman to know she is secured by her partner, not having to worry about lies, deceit, cheating or financial difficulty.
True enough, a woman’s worth is far above jewels. She is precious and priceless. Though they are complicated beings, they do not deserve to be treated less. For a woman they say is just like a flower. If you treat them nice, they’ll bloom and blossom, but if you don’t, they’ll wilt.