The Attraction Secret
Wouldn’t it be nice if we could control the level of happiness and positivism in our relationships? Or what if we could determine how successful our relationship with a particular person is going to be? Well, “The Attraction Secret” says that you can do so. Although this sounds like it could be pretty easy, but is it? Let’s look at “The Attraction Secret” and see if we can apply this to our personal lives.
The concept around this attraction secret relies on the way you think. You can control your destiny and create your own reality, you can be WHO you want and have anything and everything you want. Applying this to your relationship, or when entering a new relationship, this supposedly, can help you achieve a successful bond with your partner.
So, if you are having negative thoughts, you tend to attract negative people. On the other hand, if you have a person that has a positive way of thinking, this person will attract people with a better result in their life. But is this entire concept of “The Attraction Secret” something that we can actually rely on to get the happiness that we desire in our lives.
A concept that seems more accurate is, God controls EVERYTHING. If we want to have a positive and happy relationship with our partner, then we need to pray. And if you are seeking your soul mate, positive thinking can help, but in the end praying to God is the answer. Eventually, you must seek God and ask him to show you the path that HE wants you to follow. That path is the one that is going to lead you to a content and successful place in your life.
Now I’m not saying that the ‘Attraction Secret’ is a dead concept. Positive thinking will get you a whole lot further than having a negative outlook on life. It’s more like you need to apply ‘The Attraction Secret’ (which is really not a secret but please don’t tell anyone), in addition to asking God to lead you to the path designed for your life.
Look at it this way, you will not attract the opposite sex by being negative and acting like a loser. No person will want to have to add that type of drama into their life. Use your positive attitude in addition to the asking the Lord to help you attract someone that fulfills your needs, emotionally and physically. ‘The Attraction Secret’ and the path that the Lord has put before you will be the true way for you to have a strong, successful relationship.