What Makes a Successful Marriage?

What Makes a Successful Marriage?

Times are rapidly changing in our world today. We often question our morals, our ethics, and our standards for partners and who we want to spend the rest of our lives with. According to www.cdc.gov, about 4 people out of every 1,000 have had a marriage that has ended in a divorce. Why is there so many? Is it because we often rush into things and find out something about that person that turns them into the “insignificant” other? Or is it because we’re simply so unhappy with our choices that we find it easier to leave than to work things out? Fortunately, there are ways to create and keep a strong marriage and they aren’t as complicated as you might think.

A Successful Marriage

One of the biggest and probably most difficult to perfect, is the concept of honesty and trust. Without trust, there is no bond between a husband and a wife. Opening up to your significant other in a calm and collected way about things that might concern you is a major step forward in building a trustworthy relationship. It’s also prudent that you get to know the person that you think might be the one that you want to spend the rest of your life with. If you learn to know who you’re with, over time, you’ll pick up on their physical and emotional nature, making it easier to tell whether or not they are willing to lie to you. Like they said, Rome wasn’t built in a day and a marriage won’t carry itself through time if the two people involved aren’t willing to be honest with each other.

Another big aspect of a strong and successful marriage, is learning how to communicate with your partner. Communication is something developed through trial and error and can either create a giant hole within the marriage or make it stronger throughout the years. A good suggestion on learning how to communicate with your partner is to be straight forward with what you want in a relationship. Tell them about your interests and your point of view on different subjects; have them do the same for you as well. Once you know where they stand on the important issues of a relationship, it will be made perfectly clear if they are going to be able to sustain their part of a marriage.

Another large part of communication is expressing your emotions, no matter what they may be. If something your partner does makes you angry, tell them. If something they do makes you feel sad, or they hurt you with what they are saying, it’s good for both of you to come together in a calm manner and discuss what’s really going on. Silence may be golden, but talking to your significant other about troubles in and out of your relationship will prevent fights, which is a win-win situation in all matters.

The third but certainly not the least important point to building a successful marriage is love. Attraction both physically and emotionally with your partner generates that satisfaction that a healthy relationship is supposed to. Never forget his and her needs, spend time with each other by going on dates and taking nice, long walks on the beach or in the park. It doesn’t matter who pays for what because money won’t ever be able to buy you the connection that you two share when you’re holding her in your arms or watching her smile as you sit across from her at the dinner table. The Bible proclaims that love survives all things and through the thickest of storms, it’s that other person that gets you through the day and that is half of your marriage. That is who you must spend the time with to make them feel as if they’re the most important person in the world.

It doesn’t always have to end in divorce; a strong marriage can be sustained if you and your partner simply take the time to build the relationship. Build on everything that you once knew as a dating couple, from the lessons that you learned as an engaged couple, and from the trials that life throws at you both throughout your marriage. Be honest and true with the one you love and communicate to them all of your feelings and the bond that will form between the two of you will be unbreakable.

Most importantly, don’t forget to love! Love anything and everything about that person and you too will find yourself at a ripe old age, holding hands with the one person that could ever make you feel the way you do.

Experiencing a Successful Marriage

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